My Husband, My Bestfriend

Assalamualaikum.

My lifelong goal is to marry (and stay married to) my own one and only bestfriend. The bestest of the best, even can beat my best girlfriends (obviously haha). Dengar macam tak susah kan. Tapi susah jugak coz not everyone I can let in and be my one and only bestfriend. Memilih gila bahaa. Hey mesti la. You gotta choose who you want to spend the rest of your life with. It's an utmost commitment.

Untuk aku, kalau kawen dengan bestfriend, life is gonna be bittersweet. Ko paham dia dah sebelum kawen dengan dia. Ko tahu dia suka kentut merata, makan dengan rakus, rambut tak sikat, etc. Macam..

Bini: Heyyy awat ni dok kentut merata ni??

Bertuah punya suami: Heyyyy suka hati laaaa *sambil pas bau*

OMG. Bapak ah berdrama bagai dah haaa hahahahaha. But hey, anything pun possible khenn.

Point is..kita tahu baik dan buruk bestie kita, terima dia from the beginning but you still love him much. You can be sweet for one second, can be fighting each other the next minute. That's why I said, bittersweet.

I don't want to marry someone whom I cannot relate to, whom I cannot tolerate with. So as a bestfriend, since kita dah tau dan terima baik buruk apa semua, we can do both of it which is relating and tolerating. Of course, marriage is about those two as well after all. Another thing is I don't want to respect my husband just because I have to as in 'syurga di bawah tapak kaki suami'. I want to also respect my husband as a human with his own qualities so that I wouldn't feel so terpaksa to hormat husband. I really really really don't want that to happen sebab tu aku cakap, I only wish to marry my bestfriend.

Tho things might not go as I want, keep hoping and praying Yam :)